I’m scared.

Basically my dad got an IRM and his ligament of the shoulder is ripped from over working 7 days a week, 72 hours and they saw something on the bone and will go check with another machine that is known for detecting tumors (don’t know the name) He could loose his job and that would devastate him as he’s worked so hard, being at home he’s been more unhappy even joking about suicide once a while and argues about everything. I’m scared for our financial stability if he gets it and my mom is cold to him sometimes (she’s overworked from her 42+ hours because of her diabetes (type 1.) and IGA disease (Nephropathy) She also needs to have iron shots and are given only when she’s at her lowest. and so much things she suffers so she’s extremely exhausted and tired) and they don’t have good communication rn. You probably get why I clean the most now, my sisters became phone addicts and everyone in the family is so close yet so apart. And my right hand ligaments are hurting and shoulder when I write, I’m scared for my book and my cleaning and my future yk, how do you heal that anyway? lol? I guess. I’ve been writing a lot honestly these lasts days and today I finished my birth control and my period hit, couldn’t even go to school or eat I was crying or groaning, I look melodramatic but hey I’m a woman. I really could be prone to cancer or diabetes 1 but my parents never had money to test us all, my ulcer pills have been double in dose and are better for now. (My aunt had cancer (we don’t know the prime source except ear where it developed honestly.) , my grandpa (testicular) my aunts grandma (boo bs cancer) and a lot had it.) oh yeah I’m writing a book actually I didn’t mention it before and I’m heavily in literature and poems now, I followed what I love and it’s backing up on me (I was even practicing calligraphy, if anyone thinks I can use the computer, that’d be smart of you, but I can’t write as fast, i love writing on paper too. Even if I’m destroying my hand.) I always make those post longs don’t I? Eh, I get feed back anyway. Thanks for anyone that read this. Mwah😼🎀

Hey @RoseOptimiste7 🩵

Oh my… That’s a lot to handle at once.

I see that you’re trying your best to keep up with all of the events piling up (your dad & mom, the cleaning, your sisters, potential health risks for you, etc.).

Honestly, I admire your perseverance through all of these challenges, so I encourage you to keep writing, to keep talking about it if you feel comfortable. That’s a great first to healing actually :)

I’m sorry to hear about all of the cancer cases that you know about in your family. It’s tough to go through and I sincerely hope you won’t have it but I can’t predict the future. I’ll wish for the best for you though :)

As of right now, I’d say it would maybe be a good idea if your dad could maybe talk about what he’s going through with human resources at work, or maybe another health professional. What do you think? I think it would be a good idea, especially since you’ve heard him joke about suicide at some point. It’s a serious topic and it’s not to be taken lightly. He deserves to talk to someone and get help :)

You can talk openly to him too, but I don’t think that you have to carry all the emotional weight of all things happening right now.

Also, when it comes to your sisters’ increased phone usage, I’d say maybe you could get them involved a bit in the cleaning? It’s a kind gesture that you’re doing as a way to show support to your parents but they could also help you a bit.

For your mom, maybe it would be a good idea if she could talk with a healthcare professional too. Since she seems exhausted most of the time, as you relate it, she could get some guidance to feel less tired throughout the day if that’s possible. I don’t have that kind of knowledge right now, I’d suggest trying.

As for you, I would recommend you to talk with a friend if you can. I don’t know how comfortable you would feel sharing what is happening on your side, but it helps to not go through it all alone. It’s ok to ask for help. It’s actually a strength, a way to be resourceful.

You’ve got this, @RoseOptimiste7 . If you ever feel like you need to talk, don’t hesitate to reach out on the Forum TJ. We’re here for you 🩵

Fétiches

Ça fait monstrueusement CHIIEER quand je développe un nouveau fétiche car premièrement, ça me met tellement mal à l'aise à chaque fois que j'y pense et deuxièmement, ça ne part vraiment pas facilement. J'en ai eu un à l'âge de 7 et il est encore là (merde alors🥹) mais heureusement que ce n'est pas des fétiches nocifs comme le sadisme ou la nécrophilie, mais ça commence vraiment à m'inquiéter

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