Idk what to do

oui je parle fr mais je suis plus comfortable avk l'anglais idk why

I feel like there is no place for me to go. at school, i barely have any friends and they all switch up on me randomly. one of them who i will not namedrop kinda chooses a friend she'll stay with for some time and avoids almost everyone else. guess what, it's always anyone but me. since around November she started distancing herself from me. we had an argument and didnt talk for around a month. when we started talking again, i tried my best to make her happy yet she did everything i told i didn't like (leaving me out, making plans infront of me,etc) and i feel like i can't complain because were both going through things and it looks like im a crybaby. another friend is basically obsessed with her and it pmo. I'm not jealous (lowkey yes tf?? i'd like to be someone's bestfriend for once!!) another girl i feel like i can talk to but she always goes back to her and now i feel like i can't trust anyone. i have all my classes with them and we all sit close. in arts, they barely even have conversations because im there (i mayyyy be overthinking it but it has always proved to be right)

at home its like walking on egg shells. My younger sister (13) always steals my shit and no one tells her to stop. My dad gets mad at barely anything and gives me the randomest punishments ever (taking away my phone for a month, taking away my door, my curtains???) i feel like whatever i do im a dissapointment. he's always whining about how i have daddy issues (that would mean he's the problem hahah) and how i never come out of my room (maybe bc he's always complaining about me??) ever conversation we have is arguing or talking about chores. sometimes i think he's changed and our relationship is ok, he gets mad then i get mad and everything's ruined (ngl i do have maaajor anger issues but he does too and i was the only one sent to therapy). he's emotionally closed off, can't communicate, doesn't respect privacy (fym you won't put a lock on your kids's bathroom AND you dare to come inside when they're showering...broski...) doesn't accept his daughters opinions (invalid because im too young apparently) he's narcissistic, has no empathy and he's secretly a conservative (yes i had to add that bc he lives in a house of liberals)

I struggle with a lot. I have body dysmorphia (i hate hate hate my body even though ppl tell me its fine) i have anxiety and it feels like im gonna die whenever im outside of my house, my own thoughts freaking scare me because its always like <<what if you ran away and jumped :D>> or stuff like that. i also stopped sh for summer and its so hard im about to relapse at any minor inconvenience. its hard. i dont know how im still alive.

anywaysssss, i don't know what to do, it feels like everything always gets blamed on me (ik im problematic and dramatic but come freaking on) my mom called a therapist in February and we still have no news. i want to talk to some1 but i don't want to end up in a psych ward. my mom even gave me a document about BPD saying her and my old therapist thought it might be a possible diagnosis (gtfo naurrrrrr). i just want people that actually like me in my life idkkk

@KetchupCréatif7

Hi @KetchupCréatif7 :))

English is totally fine no worries. It’s a super good idea you had of wanting to talk to a specialist, I'm sorry it’s taking such a long time. We have services like AdoTJ and Intervenants Tel-Jeunes if you ever want to chat with someone to talk about issues of all kind you might be dealing with. You seem to have a lot on your shoulders. I know keeping friends at school can be complicated. You seem to put a lot of effort in your friendship, im sure you’ll find someone worth your while. It’s seems like your fmily life is also complicated. 8i know being the older sibling can be tiredful, younger sibling dont get as much reprimanded and parents seems to be on your back. Im glad to know your mom is helping you trying to find a therapist thought. About your body dysmorphia and anxiety, they seem to have a big impact on your wellbeing. I don’t think it makes you crazy and belong in a psych ward, but maybe look into the options I talked about earlier? I hope it can help :) 

thanks :)

Ma (blonde)

Mon amie et moi, on se connais depuis le primaire, on a commencé en 4eme à essayer de se toucher, et on sait perdu de vu. Mtn que je suis en sec2, on a commencé à se reparler et ON veut ken. Ça fait un an qu'on chat sur snap et à la toujours pas fait parce qu'on trouve pas le bon moment. Suis-je le seul?

Jugez moi pas

Depuis que je suis jeune je suis en quête de sensations sexuelle, et depuis peu, j'ai de plus en plus besoins de me masturber. Si vous avez le droit de me donner des trucs à essayer, je suis preneur...

Temps d’écran

Salut, j’espère que vous allez bien.

J’ai beaucoup de misère à gérer mon temps d’écran et genre chaque fois que je prends mon téléphone/ ma tablette genre pour faire une recherche ou répondre à un message après je me mets à juste regarder des trucs ou lire des trucs sur tout et n’importe même si en réalité je m’en fiche complètement. C’est juste que j’arrive pas à m’en empêcher et après je sens que je perds mon temps et ça réduit mon temps pour faire des activités que j’aime et après je me sens super mal donc j’aimerais réussir à mieux gérer mon temps d’écran. J’ai essayé des fonctions de limite de temps mais vu que je le mets moi même je peux juste l’enlever genre et je le fais à chaque fois j’ai l’impression que ça fais juste empirer.

Désolée si c’était dur à comprendre, mes phrases étaient peut être un peu longues.

Merci d’avoir lu et merci d’avance pour les réponses!

Plaisir

Salut, je sais pas trop comment abordé ça,mais a chaque fois qu'avec mon chum on le fait j'ai l impression ça brûle un peu au bout de 2/3 vas et viens...Et lorsqu'on le fait je ne ressent pas spécialement de plaisir en sois,ça ma fait pas du bien.Pourtant j'en ai envie et tout mais je comprends pas pourquoi je ne ressens rien...